Recipe for Redesign

This isnโ€™t a perfect recipe just like not all cookie is the same!

Ingredients:

1 Finance Budget (Savings or a Loan)

1 Interior Designer

3-6 weeks of planning and design time

6-12 weeks of waiting time for product to arrive

(Optional)

1 Contractor / Builder

1-4 months for demo, plumbing, electrical, mechanical and/or construction

Directions:

Start off by making sure you are financially set for this project, whether it be savings you are ready to spend or looking at getting a loan from the bank.

Collect ideas for what you would like to change, and a list of things you want to keep. These will be used later with your Interior Designer.

Your initial meeting with an Interior Designer will most likely need to be on-site so they know the canvas. Then they will need to collect measurements, specifications of existing appliances that are staying, and any electrical, mechanical or structural features that could effect the design.

You now get to wait for a preliminary design to be created, you can make any desired changes from there with help of your designer. Once the design is finalized then the ordering begins! ***

Many companies require 50-75% of the total merchandise to be paid for at the time of ordering so be prepared for that. In 6-12 weeks your product will be in and ready to install.

Install can be chaotic. Unpacking, moving furniture, assembling various items and more can all either be done by you, the homeowner, or with a team.

*** (Optional) Construction will take place while you wait for your product. Depending on what is being done this process can be loud and messy. Everything is bound to have some issue arise but being prepared for that idea makes things go much smoother.

Take care of yourself!

Things to do in the morning to start your day off right:

Make that favorite drink of yours, mine is dark coffee with hazelnut creamer.

Eat an actual meal for breakfast, not just a granola bar.

Do your hair, even if itโ€™s five minutes to put a little braid in your bangs.

Play your favorite song.

Listen to a podcast.

Pray. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป

Read a daily bible passage.

Look up the saint of the day.

Look up the silly holiday of today.

Work out.

Brighten the middle of your day!

Snack on something sweet.

Go on a walk during lunch.

Write a journal entry. โœ๐Ÿป

Scroll Instagram and post happy comments on your favorite items.

Play with your pet.

Relax before going to sleep…

Use a sheet mask.

Take a bubble bath!

Watch an episode of your favorite show.

Sip on some decaf tea.

Braid your hair or put it in curlers.

Plan your outfit for the next day (or two!)

Go to bed at a reasonable time, or early!

Snuggle with your significant other. โค๏ธ

Indulge in some ice cream.

Meet up for a glass of wine or dessert with a friend.

Take your dog for an evening stroll.

Practice yoga.


These are just 27 ways you can take care of yourself to make life more enjoyable. Donโ€™t feel bad to cancel plans with people or ask your husband to make dinner for some you time! We all need to take better care of ourselves so we are more capable of helping those who need us.

Induction turned cesarean – my birth story.

Disclaimer: This is not medical advice, only a lady telling the story of her first birth.

I was diagnosed with gestational diabetes during my pregnancy and because of the risks that accompany that me and my doctor decided I should have an induced labor. She said typically women get induced in between 38-40 weeks with gestational diabetes. Knowing this and working around scheduling we decided on July 19th, starting with cervical ripening the evening before.

I checked into the hospital at 7 pm Thursday night through the ER, we got settled in the delivery room had my first cervical exam and I was only dilated to .5 cm. This meant I needed to start on a cervical ripening medication called cytotech before starting pitocin. They administered the cytotech at 8:30 pm, and again at 12:30 am. This medication didn’t feel like it was doing much for me but it was something that worked over time. Over the night I slept like normal and Vincent, my husband, slept next to me in the recliner.

At 4:30 am I was given my first dose of pitocin to induce contractions. So far over the night I felt like I was having regular menstrual cramps and was prepared for it to really start ramping up, it didn’t seem much worse the first dose of pitocin.

Around 7 am I was served breakfast and they increased the dose of my pitocin. They did start getting a little worse but I was still able to sleep through them because I took a couple hour nap.

At about 11 am I had another cervical exam and still had not dilated more than 1 cm. Because of this my doctor suggested a Foley balloon catheter which pressed against my cervix to help it dilate. This procedure was pretty uncomfortable and once it was in my contractions really felt painful and I no longer could get out of bed without help.

I tried to eat lunch after this but only ate a few bites of a sandwich because I was feeling nauseated. They decreased my pitocin levels so the catheter could work better with less contractions interrupting which was good because I was very uncomfortable! I had been on fluids for a straight 8 hours so I felt insanely bloated, my IV sight was bruising and itching along with my stomach which was itching on top of my contractions, then I had five different monitors strapped to me, a catheter taped to my thy and started to vomit. Once I calmed down after getting sick I would walk some laps to get more ice water.

Artwork by Alex Olfson. Visit https://uruhead.carrd.co/ to see more of their work or for your own custom piece.

A little before 6 pm they did another cervical exam, removed the balloon catheter and broke my water. This was so much pressure relieved but the pain moved right to my back instead. At that point I was dilated to almost 3.5 cm so I had quite a ways to go, I did a few more laps, tried an exercise ball to take off pressure and then decided I wanted an epidural. Once the anesthesiologist arrived it still took about 30 minutes to set up and get it in place. Finally it was 7:30 pm and I had my epidural. I felt so much better without the pain but sadly some complications came with this.

Right away they noticed my blood pressure drop a tiny bit, but it came back at the normal rate. This is a normal side effect of an epidural but what wasn’t normal was for my baby’s heart rate to drop. It started small right after getting my epidural and kept dropping each time I had a contraction, so they lowered the dose of my pitocin. This went on for about two hours before it was dropping so low that it could be detrimental. At this point they stopped my pitocin completely and called in my doctor.

She arrived at about 10 pm, checked my vitals, did quick exam and then went to look over the heart rate monitor and contraction monitor charts to see what was really happening. After about twenty minutes she came back and informed us that this was becoming to severe and we would have to have a c-section. It would take about 30 minutes for the team to arrive and get the surgical suite ready, get my spinal block done and move our stuff into the recovery room. This time went by so fast, my mother, sister and nephews came back to the hospital to wait to meet Marcel and as they were walking in I was being wheeled off to the surgical suite.

Immediately after being wheeled into the suite the anesthesiologists were placing their monitors, positioning my arms, putting up the privacy sheet and then did their final tests to make sure I was fully numb. My poor husband Vincent was having issues with the sterile suit he had to wear because he was too tall so his entrance was a little delayed. While he was struggling with that my doctor had to make the incision which was so fast. She finished that and they pulled a sheet over me so Vincent couldn’t see, moved him into his seat next to my head and then continued. We were a little distracted from each other because I was being asked so many questions to make sure I couldn’t feel anything and he was super uncomfortable just trying not to pass out from this tiny suit squeezing him along with the surgical mask covering his face. After about 15 minutes they told me I would feel pressure from someone pressing down on my stomach while the doctor pulled out my baby. This feeling was not what I expected and I remember saying out loud “oh yeah I can feel that!” Which that prompted the anesthesiologist to give me more pain medication, I believe demoral. I had informed him before that I was sensitive to all narcotics so I didn’t want anymore than was needed for the spinal block, however I did see why he thought this was needed. Not even a minute after he administered that I felt sick and vomitted. Being pinned down to the surgical table I could only turn my head which made the vomit ooze down the side of my head.

There was an issue getting Marcel out because his umbilical cord was wrapped around his neck three times. This also explained why his heart rate was dropping every time I had a contraction. My doctor got it unwrapped quickly and moved him over with the pediatrician. Vincent was moved over to the warming table with Marcel and the doctor while I was back getting sick. I couldn’t hear him cry at first which for a c-section is normal because he has a lot of fluid in his mouth that had to be suctioned out. Once he was cleared Vincent was able to bring him over to me. He was so much smaller than we expected and just so handsome. I got to snuggle with him skin to skin while the doctor finished closing my incision. I don’t recall what she used to close my uterus but she used surgical glue to close my skin.

Artwork by Alex Olfson. Visit https://uruhead.carrd.co/ to see more of their work or for your own custom piece.

Once we were complete I was unhooked from most of the monitors and wheeled to the recovery room while Vincent carried Marcel along behind me. As we were going down the hallway my mother, sister and nephews came running to see our new baby. Tears rolling down my moms face and pure joy coming from my nephews. My sister checked in on me to make sure I was okay and then proceeded to see Marcel and Vincent. Vincent was so proud to show off his son for the first time.

DIY wrap baby carrier

Supplies

  • 6 yards of cotton jersey knit fabric
  • Fabric scissors
  • Ribbon or small patch (optional โ€“ will need needle & thread for this)

Instructions

  1. Most fabrics come 45โ€ โ€“ 54โ€ wide which is too large for the wrap. Cut the fabric down the center to make it 24-1/2โ€ โ€“ 27โ€ wide while giving you two wraps.

(Optional) ribbon or small patch helps identify the middle of the wrap for easier wrapping. For ribbon take a small piece of ribbon and fold it over the edge at the center and sew to attach OR attach your patch of choice at the center.

 It is quite a simple process and gives you the option to choose your favorite pattern or color.

Closet Organization

Start by taking everything out and put into piles sorted by item type. This lets you see how much you have and where you could get rid of things. Then sort through those piles for items to keep, and give away.

After sorting its easiest to put a plan onto paper. Such as this shown below.

Short hang section is where dress pants, shirts and sweaters go, long hang is dresses, long jackets, skirts and special occasion items. Shoe shelves are suitable over bins because you can see clearly what you have and can access easier. Flat shelves are suggested over angled for all different shoe types to sit properly. Lastly in the closet are the overhead bins, in these you can store your purses, belts, hats, scarves and other smaller accessories.

Not stored in the closet are your t-shirts, jeans, lounge wear and intimates. These would be stored in a dresser or chest of drawers since the closet space does not allow for more. Also not stored in the closet would be the off season items such as winter coats, boots and heat gear or summer cover-ups, sun hats and swim wear. These work well stored in air locked bags or heavy duty storage bins in the garage, basement or separate coat closet.

Not all closets are the same of course but start with an idea, make it into a plan and you will succeed in optimal organization!